Forgive as forgiven
Colossians 3:13
“bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.”Colossians 3:13 · WEB
Forgiveness is not saying the wound didn't matter. It is refusing to let the wound rule you. You release the debt because a far greater debt of yours was already torn up at the cross.
Prayer
Lord, you forgave me everything. Loosen my grip on what others owe me, and heal what still hurts.
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